It’s back! 30 Day Orgasm Fun! Masturbation for a Mental Health Boost!
Well, well, well! Another year has flown by and I don’t know about you but I am in need of my 30 Days!
If you haven’t seen this before, a few years ago I decided to tackle my depression by prescribing myself an orgasm a day to see if it helped with my mental health and over all wellbeing. I decided to announce it on the internet and found a few other folks who wanted to try too.
Does it really help boost mental health?
Well, if you take away the pressure of making it about orgasm, and just enjoy a moment or two every day to reconnect with your sensual sexual self, I’m sure you’ll feel some sort of lift, I definitely do. I’m very careful not to talk of this as a challenge – I know some people thrive on that but for some of us, orgasm is such a fickle friend that it can be quickly lost if it’s a necessity.
So the main aim is to give yourself some time and space. If orgasms come, HOORAY!! Bask in those self-made endorphins for as long as you can.
One of the biggest things I found is connecting with other people too and I feel like that’s more important than ever this year.
I am going to dip in and out of this – I might post every day, I might not. But I will be using the hashtag #30DayOrgasmFun to chat about my fun over on Twitter and Instagram so join me there and let me know how you get on. I’ve got some awesome sex toys to give away too gifted by Rocks Off so do keep an eye out over there!
If you want to write about your experiences, I’ll be adding links to posts here so we can hopefully share chat, tips, what works for us, what toys we use, what we need to feel sexy! Even if you just post photos of yourself, we’d love to see them too! It would be great to have some chat boosting and encouraging each other in this way. Simply post your link in the comments here or tag me on SM and I’ll add. If you don’t have a blog I’m happy to host you as a guest here – email me – tabitharayne (at) gmail (dot) com
If your libido could do with an initial boost to get your juices flowing, why not try some ethical female friendly porn over at FrolicMe, listen to some delicious audio porn over at Girl on the Net, or read some erotica – explore my site (Email me if you want a free PDF of Drenched ) and go and check out my Great Sites For You page where there are lots of links to some fabulous sexy wordsmiths to lift and reconnect you to your saucy side.
Lots of love and happy 30 days! Can’t wait to connect!
I love this Twitter Live from Anne Stagg who gives a great talk on setting intentions – there’s some wonderful advice – especially if you are hard on yourself at times – please take a listen – there’s a bonus erotic vampire tale in there too!
Your Links Here:
- The Other Livvy – Motherhood, Libido and Lockdown – a beautiful post exploring all the huge life topics in Livvy’s beautiful eloquent style.
- A very hot post on Sexting, Cock Rings and Mutual Masturbating from MX Nillin!
- I Masturbated with Lube for the First Time! By me – I can’t believe it took so long!
- Insta Live with Sh Womenstore! Friday 17th @6.30
- Twitter Live update from Anne Stagg – on anger and self love
- An Orgasm A Day Keeps the Darkness at Bay – my blog for Godemiche silicon – they have fabulous sex toys x
- All The Sex To Come! A brilliant blog from Mx Nillin who’s planning ahead for the day we’re out of lockdown 🙂
- Clitoral Orgasms and a Dildo Muse – some fiction inspired by an sexy art
Please link back to this post and use my sexy new logo!