Happy Horny Hogmanay wishes! You Set My World Alight! Yes YOU!

Here’s a quick round up of my year and some writing opportunities you might want to take part in! Thank you for sticking with me 🙂

Happy Horny Hogmanay! Make sure it’s a Sexy One! 😀

2019 got off to a great start when My Vagina went viral!

The show Sex Education shared my Sew Sweary embroidery on their insta feed, and for a moment, a tiny part of me went famous…

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that’s like, sew my vagina. 📌 by @tabitharayne

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The art has been amazing this year, I have acquired several new pieces, one of which is this sensational poster by Hazel Mead that features one my Ruby Glows! I can’t tell you how amazing it was to see it depicted, kind of makes it more real, strangely! And her work with the Vaginismus Network has been amazing joy this year. The gals at the Vag Network are legends!

I’ve had the privilege of working worth some incredible people this year – I took up the role of Magazine Editor for the fabulous female friendly porn site FrolicMe – Anna Richards has pretty  much single handedly built an entire erotic platform – with stunning sex films, audio porn, erotica and educational articles. What an absolute joy to be part of! We are always interested in having more writers join our virtual pages so take a look around and email me [email protected] for submission details.

I don’t want to start listing folk because I will inevitably leave someone key out and I hate that! However, I have particularly loved these stories from Posy Churchgate and Niccy Haydon which was one of my first to edit. The ones I loved writing most were See You Fight and My Wank Bank – utter filth 😀

Some of our noon fiction has been fascinating, Dr Jenga wrote a brilliant piece on Medieval Sex and it’s always a treat to receive something from Amy Norton and Franki Cookney. And I was super pleased with my article Cunt.

Take a look on this Twitter thread for all the authors and how to find them:

I thank all the fabulous writers I’ve worked with this year for @anna_frolicme Anna Richards has let me loose, editing stories and commissioning writers for her magazine – I adore her erotic films! Go and watch her beautiful ethical porn and erotic tales https://t.co/c92DTDj6Ff

— Tabitha Rayne (@TabithaErotica) December 31, 2019

So what’s been happening about Ruby Glow – I heard there’s a new one?

Well you heard right!

2020 is going to be a big year for ride on sex toys, not least because Ruby Glow and Rocks off are launching something really special!

Some of you got a sneak preview at the Luke and Jack sponsored chat at the Scottish Queer International Film Festival (a fantastic event – do NOT miss next year’s – it’s a lesson in inclusivity and positivity!)

And yet more of you will get a peek at a few events I’m joining this year –

1 – Vaginismus Network evening at Luke and Jack – 11^th January

2 – Sex Talk with Dawn Thomson at the Kimpton in Edinburgh – 20^th January

3 – Eroticon – Sex writers’ conference – highly recommend! March 15^th

4 – the BIG LAUNCH PARTY – in MAY you’re all invited and I’ll keep you posted! It will be so worth it! Subscribe to keep updated.

So what else went down this year?

I recorded a podcast with the lovely Kylie from Egg – went on Lori Bisbey’s radio show, and had a facebook live encounter with Lindsay from NOW – all amazing women I hope to work with again very soon!

I was lucky enough to go to Canada earlier this year and did an interview for Erotic Trade Only about a store visit to Wicked Wanda’s – and I also met THE Queen Jayne Renaut and the amazing women from Bellesa films – what a trip!

Over the summer I honed my burlesque skills and even performed in the Edinburgh Festival Fringe – dream come true! If you ever meet me on a night out, I might twirl my tassels for ya 😉

Lara Parker who lives with endometriosis shared her sex toy shelf and look what was on it!

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I’ve been feeling a little blue recently and lost my mojo, feeling like I had nothing to say to you all, but then *this* beautiful sex toy positive post came up today and well, now I’m back up! There’s so much to say, *so much to say* about women being proud of their sexual pleasures and desires, and this post captures it so brilliantly. Normalise sex toy and vibrator use! Whoop! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much Lara, and so grateful to see a @therubyglow there too! 💕 #selfloveisselfcare #Repost @laraeparker • • • • • • i thought i might be sad when my ex moved out after living together for two years but now i have two vibrator shelves so idk i’d say i’m doing fine

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Bumped into Hannah Witton at Edinburgh Book Fest, yes I look a bit wired but it’s not often folks come up my way! 😀

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So wonderful to hear @hannahwitton at #edbookfest 🎉❤️ LOVE THIS WOMAN 😍 great and open Gen Z audience showing us all the future looks bloody fantastic 🎉 Sadly had to dash off before I could get my book signed, the queue was enormous 👍 you’ll be there all night Hannah 😁 enjoy your time in #Edinburgh TAE AN INCH ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 #HormoneDiaries #Hormones #books 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 #newbook

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In December I recorded some audio porn for the utterly magnificent Girl On The Net who is one of the most generous and amazing bloggers I’ve ever met. She’s started a new Audio Porn Project with new voices and erotic stories – my story I Want My Words To Make You Want kicked off the fun! Listen to more aural sex here!

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With Ruby Glow I sponsored the Smut Marathon hosted by  – the winner this year was Blue submission – it is a mammoth competition to curate, organise and host, hats off to Marie Rebel for her dedication! If that’s not enough, she hosts the weekly meme Wicked Wednesday! Go take part for excellent reading, writing and being part of the sexy community.

I’ve LOVED Photos from Kisingura this year – her work is breathtaking, especially this one:

More? Really?

Yes, soz:

Brough on a PR rep for Ruby Glow – drop her an email, she’s fab 😊 [email protected]

I made Molly’s Top 100 again this year (check out Molly’s photography and writing, she is unbelievably generous with her world and supremely talented), the winner this year was Floss Does Life – so deserved, you must go take a look at her stunning blog.

 I also made Kinkly’s Sex blog Superheroes alongside some faves of mine.

I hope you had a fabulous year and remember to take part in some of the memes I’ve mentioned and do check out FrolicMe especially if you have some article ideas or fancy writing sexy fiction for the films.

To finish this off go take a read and listen to Southpaw to get you all revved up and remember…

Have a Happy Horny Hogmanay – may 2020 bring you all your heart’s desires!

Love youz x x x

Check out my books if you fancy treating yourself to something longer x x

And as always, if you’re in need of some ride on vibrating fun, look no further than Ruby Glow!