Helping Hand – #30DayOrgasmFun Update

Helping Hand – #30DayOrgasmFun Update for Sinful Sunday


Hello there! I thought I’d share my photo, Helping Hand, for this week’s Sinful Sunday. It plays in well to my 30 Day Orgasm Fun project I started on Monday – see the original post here. Basically I wanted to see if I could lift my mood through orgasm and masturbation fun – lots of people have been joining in so I’m really excited about that. I’ve tried to keep it as easy going and light-hearted as possible, the last thing I intend to do is make anybody (including myself) feel pressure.


30 day orgasm fun logo


So… how have I been getting on? Well, I have realised that unless I am writing sex scenes which have me horny and wriggling about on my chair, when orgasms come easily, I rely wholly on my lover for them.

Over the past six days, four out of the five orgasms I’ve had have been through his skills. (Yes, I missed a day.)

I have been trying to pleasure myself without having to be at my laptop jumping around on my sex toy. It was really difficult. It took aaaaages! I managed to feel turned on but every time I just about got to the magic spot, I’d think, ‘oh this is great, I haven’t lost my ability to masturbate’ thus bringing me out of the moment… I persevered and did manage, it was more of a relief than a climax and my calves were so bloody tensed that actually could barely walk over the past couple of days. But I did it!

I used to be able to come by myself so easily. Every night I would send myself to sleep this way. Now, maybe I have been spoiled by my lover. Or maybe I’ve lost touch with myself. I’m glad I’ve started this project and am finding out about my own sexuality. It’s been a lot harder than I thought and I hope that the original aim of ‘orgasms for a mental health boost’ doesn’t get lost because I’m chasing the perfect masturbation technique.

If you are taking part and would like to link any blog posts of your experiences please see the original #30DayOrgasmFun post and let me know.

Now, to see who else is joining in for Sinful Sunday, click those sexy sexy lips!


10 thoughts on “Helping Hand – #30DayOrgasmFun Update

  1. Lovely shot Tabitha and I look forward to reading more about how you get on with this challenge and if you rediscover your masturbation techniques


  2. I’m a little late to your post . . . and, six or seven days late for your challenge . . . so I’ve obviously got some catching up to do.
    But I’m always up for a challenge . . . and “easy-going and light-hearted” is always fun!!!
    And I certainly hope your project is successful . . . in every sense !!!
    Xxx – K

  3. I absolutely love the intimacy of this image. I feel like I can sense the warmth still in the sheets, though they are pulled back.

  4. As deliriously sexy as ever, Tabitha! And how dreamy would it be to offer you a helping hand… 😉 ~C

  5. I’ve been working on it every day for you… with great success.

    p.s. I’m buying you a light bulb…

  6. I have the opposite, all my orgasms as part of the 30 day challenge have been ‘self-care’ as I though I subtly put it. Now I just need to remember when I started the challenge so I can work out when my 30 days are up…not that I’ll be stopping!

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